Daybook for February 2012

Ah, a Daybook entry, what better way is there to reflect and ramble about our latest musings and happenings?  Today's edition is a mix of big and small choices, difficult and delightful moments.  Like a small town newspaper, the news borders on gossip, but you can't help read it anyway.  As always, thanks to the Simple Woman's Daybook for providing the inspiration.

Outside my window...there is brown grass where yesterday there was SNOW!  We enjoyed our one and only snow day of the year yesterday.  Conveniently, school had already been dismissed for Presidents' Day.  We wasted no time getting outside and quickly made a snowman.  He wasn't Minnesota-sized, but he was pretty cute.  We built him in the shade so that he would last longer, and thank goodness we did!  By the time we finished playing in the snow, most of it had melted.  Even our snowman was gone by the evening, before I could snap a picture.  Ah, well, that's life in North Carolina.

Our back yard playground, covered in snow!

I am thinking...about our Baby Bear, who turned ten months yesterday! 

A Bear and his daddy.

Our little man impresses us everyday with his new skills.  He loves to make people smile by waving hello and good-bye.  He likes to clap along, whether to a song or to show his delight.  He is standing, furniture walking, and crawling like lightning.  I can no longer let him out of my sight because he is getting into everything!   Big sibs, mom and dad have to be careful where we leave our toys and treasures if we don't want to share them with Baby Bear.  And oh, my, what a voracious appetite he has!  This boy is a growing boy.  

Baby Bear celebrates in style :)

I am thankful...to Neen for nominating us for the Versatile Blogger Award.  How kind!  I am most thankful that our blog has brought enjoyment and escape for her as she anticipates the birth of her twins!  Thank you.  I'll fulfill the obligation of passing along this award in a future post.

In the kitchen...I am cooking our Mardi Gras meal complete with roasted vegetable pasta and the last minute addition of a crock pot chicken.  What a treat!  Thanks, Whole Foods, for providing organic, free range chickens on sale.  Yum.  

I am wearing...fuzzy socks.  I found them at the back of my sock drawer yesterday, and they were perfect for our snow day.  They are oh, so comfortable.  

I am creating...my annual plan to help us make the most of Lent.  With Ash Wednesday tomorrow, it is time to add the finishing touches.  Lent is a season that offers us the tremendous opportunity to regroup, reflect and recharge in our walk with God.  I say, bring it on.


I am going...actually, I went to the grocery store with the Bears today.  You might think I have a death wish or just get a kick out of tempting fate.  Actually, I was desperate for ice cream.  With three in tow, I chose the grocery store with the mini "shopper in training" shopping carts.   My kids love the mini shopping carts.  Thankfully, both mini carts (they only have two) were available at the entrance, so both G-Bear and E-Bear got to push one.  We have two rules when I allow the little shopping carts:  #1: Everyone must stay behind mommy and follow me at all times.  #2:  We walk, we don't run, with the carts.  Often, someone has a lapse of behavior and looses their cart privileges part-way through our shopping trip.  Not today.  Today my Bears were cherubs, and they were rightly showered with compliments from the other shoppers.  "Oh, my, aren't YOU TWO big helpers?"  "What excellent helpers you have there, Mom!"  And my personal favorite:  "Hey, Sam!  Look, it's a train!"  My kiddos beamed with pride as they pushed their carts.  I would like to thank the legion of angels over my shoulder.  And yes, we bought a lot more than ice cream.

I am wondering...why, with so many wonderful toys surrounding him, Baby Bear is most interested in chewing on the power strip hidden behind the couch.  Like I said, I can't let that boy out of my sight! :)

I am reading...phonics books from Progressive Phonics with G-Bear.  Actually, I should say that SHE is reading them with me!  I am so impressed and amazed as she develops this new skill.  The look on her face is priceless as she sounds out a word and realizes she has read it.  So far we have done the first book in the series, the short "a." Now we are onto the second book, and we are all excited to start it.  Even E-Bear asked if we could read it for story time today.

Photo from Progressive Phonics

I am learning...so much from the women in my Bible Study.  Right now we are reading James, and I love our discussions about how to practically live out our faith. 

Around the house...we are missing our three cousins, who joined us yesterday for playtime and dinner!  We had so much fun.  G-Bear said today at lunch:  "I miss them.  It was so LOUD when they were here.  I felt like our house was shaking we were so loud."  I can assure you that this was a most sincere compliment on her part.    

I am look forward to... Thursday.  Why?  Rank lists for all residency applicants are due tomorrow by 9pm.  I can't wait to wake up on Thursday and have the deadline behind me.  


I am pondering...residency.  With rank lists due tomorrow, this is the eight hundred pound gorilla in my room.  Actually, to say that I am "pondering" residency does not do justice to the amount of mental energy and capacity that this decision has consumed for the past two years.  I somewhat ashamed to admit that I am so nervous about tomorrow that my hands are shaking right now, even as I type this.  For me, the question is not only what rank list I will submit, but whether I will submit one at all.  Eight hundred pound gorilla, indeed.  

A favorite quote for today...

"If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it shall be given to him.  But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind.  That man should not think he will receive anything from the Lord."  ~James 1:5-7

One of my favorite things...is snuggling with my Bears.  Whether we are reading a book, tucking in for the night or watching a movie, their sweet snuggles make my day.  

A few plans for the rest of the week...Ash Wednesday and a decision tomorrow, basketball with T this weekend, and a visit from Uncle C round out our plans for the next week.  

A peek into my day...

Our porch yesterday, more proof that it really did snow.

Grocery Bag

It is a rare, snowy day here in Winston-Salem, Ash Wednesday is a few days away and Lent starts this week.  Good thing we have a meal plan!  Here are my dinner ideas for our week.

Day One

Honey ginger chicken bites from Cooking Light Magazine

over basmati rice with broccoli slaw salad

These bites are delicious.  If you are short on time, as I often am, mix up the marinade as you cook the chicken in a skillet or wok, then add the marinade for a quick asian saute and serve over rice.

Photo and recipe from MyRecipes.com

Day Two

Pasta with roasted vegetables and bacon from Martha Stewart Living

with pineapple slices and spinach salad

Cauliflower is in season!  It's the perfect time to make this dish.

Photo and recipe from MarthaStewart.com

Day Three

Lima bean corn chowder with apple and parmesan by Happily Ever Johnson

with chopped corn tortillas and apple slices

This pureed soup is sweet & savory.  We like it best with the toppings.  My kids like to sprinkle the parmesan, minced apple and diced tortilla onto their own soup.  Plus they are more likely to eat their soup after they have "made it" the way they like it! 

Lima bean corn chowder with apple and parmesan

by Happily Ever Johnson

Ingredients:

2 Tbs olive oil

1 cup onion, chopped

4 cloves garlic, minced

4 cups vegetable broth

2 cups water

1 small potato, diced

2 tsp fresh rosemary, chopped

1 1/2 cups frozen lima beans

1 red bell pepper, diced

2 cups sweet corn kernels (drained if using canned)

1-2 tsp salt

1/4 tsp black pepper

1/4 cup half-and-half

1 Tbs corn starch

Toppings:

1 apple, chopped fine

fresh grated parmesan cheese

3 corn tortillas, chopped

1.  In a large stockpot or dutch oven, heat oil over medium heat.  Add the onion and garlic and cook 5 minutes or until tender and beginning to brown at the edges, stirring frequently.  Add the broth, water and rosemary.  Bring the mixture to a boil and then reduce heat, add the potato and simmer for 10 minutes, covered.

2.  Add the lima beans, corn, red bell pepper, salt and pepper.  Simmer for 5-10 minutes more or until potato and veggies are tender.  Taste and season with salt and pepper as desired.

3.  Carefully ladle the soup solids into a blender or food processor along with 1-2 cups of broth.  Puree until smooth, taking care when blending the hot liquid.  Return the puree to the pot and stir well. 

4.  Mix the half-and-half and cornstarch together until smooth.  Add the cornstarch mixture to the hot soup and stir to combine.  Simmer 1-2 minutes more until slightly thickened.  

5.  Serve soup sprinkled with parmesan, chopped apple and tortilla.

Day Four

Baked penne with chicken and sun-dried tomatoes from Everyday Food Magazine

with dried cranberry, orange and spinach salad

The rich and creamy sauce makes this a great choice for a cold night or a make-ahead freezer dish.

Photo and recipe from MarthaStewart.com

Day Five

Spaghetti with veggies and peanut sauce from Everyday Food Magazine

with orange slices

This is quick and tasty for a weeknight dinner.  

I separate out the ingredients for my kids on their plates, but they love the sauce.

Photo and recipe from MarthaStewart.com

Blessings on your kitchen this week!

Prepping for Lent

I have a big decision looming.  

T has been out of town.  

We have had two days of sixty degree weather in a row.  

It is easy to forget than Lent begins next week.  

I find that my Lent is more meaningful if I do a little forethought and preparation.  So today, I laid the groundwork:

Christmas lights still up? 

Took them down.

Moldy fairytale pumpkin hiding on my porch since October,

sorry, buddy, into the trash you go.

The last surviving Christmas books and toys that we couldn't bear to put away in January,

packed away into yet another Christmas treasure box.

The pile of arts & crafts supplies that Baby Bear is always tearing into?

Tucked away into a basket for E-Bear and G-Bear next to their art table.

Today was all about making space to make space.

It is easier for me to pray when my space isn't a mess, and I have a lot of praying to do this week.

The bonus?  T will be so impressed when he gets home.

Hugs and Kisses

Valentine's Day has past.  Nonetheless, today has been filled with hugs and kisses. 

As I take the time to think about it, praise the Lord, most of my days are filled with hugs and kisses.

This morning E-Bear and G-Bear jumped on my bed and hugged me to wake me up.

T had a kiss for each of us as he walked out the door to work.

Baby Bear was smothered with sibling hugs as he waited his turn to be dressed.

G-Bear and E-Bear gave me hugs and kisses in the car as we hopped out at school.

Everyone got hugs as we said our goodbyes at our classroom doors.

Daddy got hello hugs from all of us when he joined us for a special lunch.

Baby Bear got hugs and kisses as I carried him off for his nap.

He was smothered in sibling kisses again when he woke up.

I got lots of mid-bite hugs and kisses from G-Bear, sitting next to me during dinner.

Finally came the hair-brushing hugs, the story time snuggles and the goodnight kisses.

"I love my mommy," said my Bears.

And T always kisses me goodnight.

There are always so many things trying to worry, annoy, and bother me.

The difference today?  

I chose to notice the hugs and kisses of my everyday life.

And I remembered that the biggest hug of all is from our Father God.

Happy St. Valentine's Day!

Happy Valentine's Day!

E-Bear and G-Bear did a great job decorating valentines this weekend for their preschool classmates, neighbors and friends.

From E-Bear:

and from G-Bear, a fun "jewel ring" craft that we made out of pipe cleaners and Hersey kisses:

See Family Fun Magazine February issue here for the tutorial.

Hugs and kisses from all of us in Happily Ever Johnson Land!

Tips and Tricks from our Disney Vacation

Our last day at the Magic Kingdom.

I looked forward to our Disney vacation for months, but never in my wildest dreams did I believe we could have as much fun as we did.  Above the entrance to every Disney theme park hangs the inscription:  "Let the Memories Begin!"  We made enough memories (and pictures!) for at least three Disney trips, maybe even two lifetimes.  But it only left us hungry for more.

So, before I finish putting our suitcases away and begin planning our next trip ;) here are some of the tips and tricks that helped make our Disney getaway especially wonderful and memorable.  

Tip #1:  Invite the whole family:  We were fortunate enough to con all three grandparents to join us on this epic adventure.  The benefits of this for us were enormous.  

E-Bear takes his first steps into the park with Papa. 

Not only did adults outnumber the kids for the first time in recent memory, but we were able to share all kinds of things, like larger hotel suites, stroller pushing, line waiting, even swap ride duty.  Don't like the twirly rides that E-Bear is begging to go on?  No problem!  Papa and Daddy LOVE them.  Mom and Nana can sit this one out!  The line to see Tangled is an hour long?  No worries!  One lucky adult can sit in the peace and quiet of the line while the rest take the kids on another ride to pass the time.  We loved it.  Most of all, we were able to treasure the magical moments together.  E-Bear and G-Bear got a priceless picture with Papa in front of their make-believe-game inspiration "Evil Mr. Dr. Porkchop" (otherwise known as Hamm from Toy Story), and took them for a memorable ride on "It's a Small World."  MoMo was there to see how much the kids loved wearing the prince and princess capes and costumes that she had given them for Christmas.  And Nana was able to see how T now towers over Pluto, while he used to fit under the crook of Pluto's arm.  These were moments I treasured and wouldn't trade for anything.  

That's Mr. Evil Dr. Porkchop to you.

*N.B. Just because everyone goes together does not necessitate that all activities or parks need to be pursued together or at the same pace.  It is fine and wonderful to split up at points, do different things, perhaps plan only one meeting spot or meal together each day.  In our case, we were all pretty much attached for the whole trip, but we conceived of how we might split in the future as our family grows in age and interests.  

Tip #2:  Go in the off season:  Let me tell you, Disney World in January is awesome.  Not only did we get the lowest rates on our hotel room, but deals abound in the off-season, and we actually got our dining plan thrown in free too.   We rarely waited in a line longer than 15minutes, and often we walked right on to rides with no wait at all.  The weather was warm during the day and perfectly cool at night.  After going once in the off-season, I can't imagine going any other time of the year.

Note to self: take the white gloves off before driving the car!  I still haven't gotten the black sludge off.

Tip #3:  Go at your kids' pace:  We let our kids set the pace each day, and boy am I glad that we did.  We certainly didn't accomplish as much as the adults could have on our own.  We saw more shows than rides.  We went back for naps in the afternoon rather than pushing through at the park.  The kids only stayed up for fireworks a few of the nights we were there.  But as a result our days at the park were a treat with excited, refreshed kids and excited, refreshed adults.

4pm and still rolling!

Tip #4: Planning for the parks:  We had five days to play at the Disney parks.  We tackled them in the following order:  Magic Kingdom, Epcot, Hollywood Studios, Animal Kingdom and a final repeat visit to Magic Kingdom.  We tackled one park each day, and I was really glad that we did not pay for the park hopper option.  With young kids and the transfer time required to see more than one park in a day, park hopping would have been too much for us.  I did spend time planning our park experiences before we visited.  I checked out the opening and closing times, sketched out lists of not-to-be missed shows, rides or parades and noted locations frequented by beloved characters.  It was extremely helpful to have these suggestions along on our days at the park, not because we always stuck to them (we didn't), but so that when we were looking for our next thing to do, we had a prompt or suggestion.

The kids loved the rides where they could control the height of the car.
Here we are riding the Dinos in Animal Kingdom

I also tried to alternate longer days (i.e. Magic Kingdom days) with shorter days (i.e. Epcot and Animal Kingdom) so that we wouldn't get too exhausted.   Also, knowing that our kids would enjoy dressing up each day, I planned daily wardrobe suggestions based on the character encounters that would be most likely at each of the parks (certainly not necessary but added to our fun).  In the end we found that each of the parks had special experiences and characters that delighted our kids.  

Meeting Aurora in Magic Kingdom.

                  ~Magic Kingdom:  We spent two long days at Magic Kingdom.  Our favorite experiences here were the character encounters, parades and the shows in front of Cinderella's castle.  In terms of rides, we enjoyed Peter Pan's Neverland ride, the cars in Tomorrowland, It's a Small World, the Winnie the Pooh ride, the Walt Disney Rail Road, and Aladdin's Magic Carpet ride.  Even with two days here, we only scratched the surface of all there was to do.  The kids dressed as a princess and prince for our days at Magic Kingdom.

Tangled meets her protege and her prince.

                 ~Epcot:  We planned a shorter day at Epcot.  We enjoyed the Seas with Nemo and Friends, the predictable character encounters around the Worlds Showcase, Spaceship Earth, and Universe of Energy (maybe a little to loud and intimidating for our kids in retrospect).  While we thoroughly enjoyed our day, if we had a shorter visit, this park would be missable.  Again, the kids wore their princess and prince outfit.

We met Buzz in Tomorrowland.

                ~Hollywood Studios:  This was another one of our longer days and we loved it.  We enjoyed the Beauty and the Beast show, the Voyage of the Little Mermaid, Muppets 3D, Disney Jr Live with the Mickey Mouse Club characters, the Pixar characters' parade and many Pixar character encounters.  Our kids dressed as Woody and Jessie from Toy Story (their Halloween costumes), which was perfect for this day.  After Magic Kingdom, this was my second favorite park for our crew.  

Hugs for Woody at Hollywood Studios.

Jessie and Bullseye took a break from their parade to give hugs to G-Bear and E-Bear.

              ~Animal Kingdom:  We planned a shorter day at Animal Kingdom.  We enjoyed a morning safari ride and then saw the awesome Festival of the Lion King and the incredible, unmissable Finding Nemo Musical (we loved it so much we now have the soundtrack).  The food and shows here were great, as was the safari ride.  The park requires a lot of walking and it is obviously very zoo-like in nature.   Like Epcot, if we had a shorter visit this would have been a park to save for later.

On the bumpy Animal Kingdom safari.

 Tip #5:  Take time to meet the royalty:  For our kids, meeting the characters was as much of an experience as any of the rides.  They were often more delighted to stand in line to meet a character than they were to wait for a ride.  The characters do such a great job of individualizing attention to each person they meet, that my kids always left the characters feeling special.  The kids were each given an autograph book as a gift at the beginning of the trip, and we filled all the pages by our third day.  The parks each have listings on where characters are likely to be when.  

Tip #6: Get the meal plan!  This post is turning epic and already has taken me days to write.  So, I'll stop here by recommending the meal plan (especially if it's free in the off season!) and record our favorite eating spots and food solutions separately.  

Dreaming of our next Disney vacation already......

Why do I have a dishwasher when you are looking at her?

We are definitely home from vacation.  How do I know?  I am doing the dishes.

I always scrape, scrub and rinse our dishes before loading them in the dishwasher.   If I don't, they emerge from the washer with caked-on specks and streaks.  Later, when the washer is finished and we are unloading, we always have a towel in hand because most of the dishes emerge soaking wet.

All of this begs the question, with all of this pre-washer scrubbing and post-washer drying, what is my dishwashing machine accomplishing??  What step am I really saving here?  Why do I have a dishwasher when you are looking at her?

Maybe I'll give our dishwashing machine back to maintenance.  Just think of all the things I could do with more kitchen space.

Back home with pixie dust on our shoes...

We're back home after our magical Disney World get-away.

I cried on our way out of the Magic Kingdom yesterday.

I wasn't wearing my sunglasses, so T saw my tears.  

I'll never live it down, but fortunately I have an empathetic husband.

I had a blast planning our trip over the past four months.  

As I pack our memories away, I'll record some favorites, tips and tricks from this trip 

so that I have them for our next Disney vacation (or yours!).

Going to bed tonight with "It's a small world after all" singing in my brain....

Day Two at Disney

Here, there is something magical around every corner.

Today we were invited to a royal breakfast,

traveled the world and met a few celebrities along the way,

and traveled to outer space in a crystal ball.  

I love Disney World.  Good luck to T ever getting me to vacation anywhere else. 

Also, note to self, there are no lines in early February.  This is definitely the time to come with small children.

Last night during the Magic Kingdom castle illumination light show, G-Bear exclaimed:

"It's a MIRACLE!"

Well, not quite, sweetie.  It's Disney.

But that's pretty close.

Happily Ever,

Queen B

Magical Celebrations

Guess where we are?

Today, Tangled met a princess who has had one less hair cut than she.

G-Bear sighed, "Mom, now that I have met Tangled, I feel like a real princess."

What a magical celebration!

Yesterday marked the halfway point for T's fellowship year, and Monday marked the end of my residency interview season.  Hallelujah!  Bring on the Disney wishes!